Wrinkles and other marks of time aren’t often paired with sexuality in society so it is natural to struggle with aging and helpful to rediscover my body. In this episode of Sexplanations my friend Elvis helped me sort though this. By photographing me and holding my aging body in time and space he enabled me to see me through a new lens. He helped me increase visibility, connect with this unfamiliar aged Lindsey, and detach from social pressures to hide my changes or hibernate my sexuality.