All deaths are sad and we all deal with it differently, my family chooses humor, jokes, laughter and memories. it was such an honor to be present at a traditional scottish funeral, over 400 people attended, bagpipes piped, castle flags were at half mast, the entire community came to say goodbye! i even played a role in helping to carry Farquhar, and then there was the party of all parties as that is how he wanted to be celebrated!