This week, Violet checks in from Rome while Gottmik recovers from Australian jetlag. We talk Fire Island hookups, disappearing djs, and what happens when someone shows up to your gig... after waking up in your bed. Also on the docket: Taylor Swift-themed cafés, smoothies, dogs ruining hookups, plant survival, and why everyone suddenly acts like an old lady. Plus, generational queer culture gaps — including people who’ve never seen Paris Is Burning (yes, really). If you've ever caught feelings mid–versace photoshoot or realized you're the only one who remembers the word banji, you’re in the right place.