Susan L. Abrams, author of New Success Rules for Women, has interviewed more than 45 of the top women executives in the country, gathered their wisdom together with her own and has created new rules for us. Having it all can look different for every woman. It all starts with being honest with yourself about what is most important to you and then creating a realistic time frame to pay attention to each area that is important to you. From how you learn not to take "no" as an answer, to being true to your objectives, we can all learn from these women's experience and carve new paths in today's professional lifestyles.