Randi Noyes talks about how to find a higher point of love by finding an emotional intelligence. The author of The Art of Leading Yourself tells how finding love can be a hard thing but if we set sights on what we want to love, we can find the right love for us. She says that we need to define what we want and make sure what we want comes from the heart and to be true to ourselves is to be true to the person we are in a relationship with.