John Lee presents keys to dramatically shift your way of being in relationships. Using humor and self reflection, you will learn to become aware of and identify “regression” in yourself and your partner as it comes up, and to overcome it.Healthy, autonomous individuals ask themselves how well they are loving themselves, their family, community, God. The regressive version of that inquiry might be: how well am I being loved? Distinguishing “what we have to give” versus “what we need” can be a simple matter of growing up.